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March 2007 |
Smart Women, Smart ChoicesTM
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Are You Living Authentically? |
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Katana Abbott |
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What’s holding YOU back from living YOUR perfect life?

Well, I am officially
retired! I just signed the papers to hand the
reins from my financial planning practice over to my
wonderful partner of 13 years, John Steves. I must say, it
is the hardest thing I have ever done in my entire life. I
began to feel that there was something else that I was
supposed to be doing with my life back in 2002, but I kept
pushing the thoughts back down...ignoring them.
How many times have we done this to ourselves... ignoring
our intuition that there is something else we should be
doing in the world—our Life Purpose.
Well, thank God that I finally listened to my intuition and
walked through me fear to follow this dream. I am having the
time of my life, my family is happier, my former clients and
planning partner will flourish and Jill and I now attracting
all kinds of people and companies that want to join us in
our mission. It’s amazing!
Think about it...when we allow ourselves to play a larger
role in life, everyone benefits:
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We
grow and are able to contribute in a way that provides
us with joy and satisfaction.
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Others benefit by the unique gifts we are able to bring
to the world by fulfilling our life purpose.
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Often find that we love what we do so much and are
inspired with passion, that we no longer even think of
it as work—so this idea of “retirement” is not an issue.
As long as we take care of ourselves, we may never even
want to retire. This is the idea in Zelinski’s book,
“Retire Happy, Wild and Free” which I highly recommend.
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When
we are living authentically and focusing on our unique
gifts and talents, we attract others into our lives with
the same mission.
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Life
flows effortlessly—our health both physically and
emotionally is improved because we are producing
endorphins rather than adrenaline.
Spring is just a few days away...a time for change, growth
and rebirth. How do you want to live the rest of your life?
Are you ready for a change, a new beginning, new friends,
and inspiring work? If so, take action now. You do not have
to do this alone...there is an entire community...a network
here at Smart Women’s Coaching ready and waiting to support
you.
What do you do first?
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Visit our home page and sign up for our f.ree 7- part
audio mini course,
so you will learn how to embrace teh Law of Attraction,
as seen in the movie,
The Secret, into your life
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Do all seven exercises...they
are very simple...
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Print out your Perfect Life Elements...read
them every day.
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Complete the assessment at the end of the series
to
get clear about where you want to start.
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Take advantage of the 20 minute complimentary coaching
session
with Jill or me. It's that simple!
Be sure to sign up for this course before April 1st since it
will be changing -
Secrets for Getting Ahead in Life and Business.
~ Katana
Katana is an expert in helping women prepare for taking care
of their aging parents. She has been a featured speaker with
the Area Agency on Aging as well as the Federal Reserve
Board’s Money $mart Week. She will soon be launching a new
program called, “The Designated DaughterTM—
Living in the Sandwich Generation.” For more information,
you can visit her website at
www.Smartwomenscoaching.com or request her article on
the topic by emailing her at
katana@smartwomenscoaching.com with Designated Daughter
in the subject line.
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5 Smart Ways to Make a Great Impression at Work |
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Jill Jordan |
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Jill Jordan,
Personal Branding Coach with Smart Women’s Coaching – an
organization that coaches people through personal and
professional transitions in order to live with purpose,
prosperity and passion – recommends that if you don’t “brand
yourself” you won’t get noticed. Just like organizations and
companies develop “their brand” in order to market
themselves, employees need to do a very similar thing. So
get involved and create some style!
1. INVOLVE YOURSELF
OUTSIDE OF YOUR DEPARTMENT
Many people will know your great work inside your department
but how many know what you are contributing outside of your
department? A great way to get noticed is to volunteer for
projects within the company outside of your area of focus.
You’ll earn respect and admiration from all levels.
2. HEAD UP AN AFFINITY GROUP
Do you like to read? Create a book club. Do you like to
bike? Create a bike group. Many companies have affinity
groups already established. Join one that fits you and if
there isn’t one, create it. You’ll make new friends and know
co-workers better.
3. VOLUNTEER FOR A NONPROFIT
Many large corporations partner with various nonprofits. Get
involved in one (or more). What is “significant” is to take
on a leadership role. For example, if you work in marketing
then volunteer to chair the marketing committee within a
non-profit. People will notice your great work and be more
apt to do business with you or your company.
4. CREATE YOUR PERSONAL BRAND
When you walk away from someone how will they remember you?
Are you unique (in a favorable way) or do you blend in with
the pack? Why would someone choose you over someone else? Do
they even know your talents? Create your personal branding
message. I’m not just “a coach”. Rather, “I help people
re-invent themselves when they feel like they may be stuck
or wishing for a more fulfilling life/career.”
5. CREATE YOUR “SIGNATURE STYLE”
Make a favorable visual impression with people. Are you well
groomed and appropriately dressed? Do you project
credibility and confidence? Your personal brand hinges on
theses questions. You don’t get a second chance for a first
impression. Dress for the job you want, not the one you
have.
If you don’t brand
yourself, then someone else will. It may not be the “brand”
you want.
Contact Jill at 248-408-2432 or
jill@smartwomenscoaching.com.
Call for information on her upcoming seminar, “Get Ahead by
Getting Known!” or
visit her website for your free audio mini-course, “Your
Perfect Life Focus”.
Look for Jill's new
7-part audio course in April!
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Letters from Africa |
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Peggi Tabor Letters |
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Dear Family and Friends;
I’ve been thinking a lot about the incredible luxury of
central heating lately. Autumn is here and the days are
filled with warm sunshine, temperatures climbing to the
pleasant 60’s & 70’s. The fields are a sepia palette of rust
and gold as sorghum and maize continue to ripen and dry for
harvesting. But the nights bring on icy winds. On many
mornings light frost is everywhere.
I think I told you about my heating arrangements. I have
propane gas tanks; two of them. They’re huge. They look like
the bombs that E. Pickens rode down to global destruction in
“Dr. Strangelove”. During training I made about every
mistake one can make with these potential bombs including
leaving both the tank valve open and a hotplate burner on –
unlit – while I visited the latrine. Upon returning, not
only was my room filled with gas but also the entire house
to which it was attached was primed to ignite. The mother of
the family with whom I was living ran out, advised me of the
peril we were all in and proceeded to turn off my tank and
fumigate the place. She saved the day and a lesson was
learned.
I now have an almost anal procedure that I follow to light
both my cooking burner and the heater – and to turn them
off. So far, so good. My current issue with my heating and
cooking system is refilling the darn gas tanks. The tanks,
even empty, weigh a ton. They can only be refilled in town –
way down the mountain. Here’s the current procedure. A herd
boy and I hitch up the oxen and load the empty tank into a
cart. We take this to a point where it can be off loaded to
a pickup truck. I have arrangements with several pickup
owners in the valley. In town we exchange the empty tank for
a full one and return to a prearranged ox-cart pickup. It’s
a hassle to say the least. As a result I’ve become very
frugal about heat. I find myself hanging around cooking
fires outside at night listening to long stories told in a
language I understand only minimally then scurrying into my
hut, jumping into my sleeping bag resplendent in my mittens
and stocking cap.
Can this, I ask myself, really be Africa? This Mountain
Kingdom has a ski resort that I definitely plan to visit
this winter and will report upon to you. I’ll just bet their
rental gear is circa long ago – we’ll see.
In many ways living here is what life must have been like in
rural America in the early 1900’s – without the propane
tanks. To the villagers, my hut is very luxurious. Clean,
gas heat is considered hugely extravagant. On cold days I
always turn on the heat for visitors and they love it. They
sit huddled around my gas heater, munching PB&J’s, sipping
tea and trying to think of reasons to stay all day. Most
huts are heated with wood and dung fires - inside. It’s
terrible. The roofs theoretically absorb the smoke but they
don’t really. People sit inside breathing in dense smoke. In
bad weather women cook over these indoor fires with babes
wrapped to their backs – their tiny lungs filling with
particulate matter. Lung and breathing problems are very
common here.
In rereading this letter, I think I’m a little depressed.
It’s been a lousy week. The food shipments that were
supposed to come from the UN Food for Work Program didn’t
arrive. The local distribution official, after a month of
assurances that she would put our village on her areas’
distribution list, decided that we really belonged to
another district. I wanted to strangle her. It means
starting all over again with proposals, justifications -
mountains of paperwork. In the meantime we continue to bury
heartbreakingly bone thin corpses.
On the bright side, the cooperative is doing well and I’m
working with another PCV to initiate HIV/AIDS training for
54 home health care workers, 9 sangomas and 7 community
leaders. HIV/AIDS and poverty go so hand in hand here. If we
can in any way initiate the behavioral interventions
necessary to stop the spread of this disease we will be
taking a positive step. I’m excited about the training
program and will spend most of next week in Maseru lining up
speakers, resources and funding. I also just spent a most
enjoyable day writing a constitution with the executive
committee from the newly formed Menkhoaneng Community
Development Association. This will be the umbrella group
that directs the Co-operative, the construction group that
builds the toilets for the school and the workers who are
being trained in traditional building methods for the
Cultural Village project. We will register this new
constitution (which is very much like a business plan) with
the central government and become an official CBO (Community
Based Organization). Hopefully, this will allow this
association to run effectively for many years after I leave.
The meeting, which took place in my hut today for nine
hours, was a joy. We had both of my laptops going full
blast, the constitution being written in both English (by me
with much serious input by community leaders) then
translated into Sesotho (by a brilliant local teacher). I
was able to serve wonderful food – Bear Creek Farms
minestrone soup, steamed bread, chocolate bars and cans of
soft drinks – it gave us all a feeling of affluence. The
group left just as the sun was setting into a colorful sky
graced with a bright full moon.
I just read an excerpt from Jeffery Sachs book, "The End of
Poverty" and was hugely inspired. My sister sent it to me
from the March 14th issue of Time. Sachs runs the UN
Millennium Fund and has stunningly brilliant ideas on how to
end world poverty. It would just take 0.7% of the GNP of
donor countries to halve poverty by 2015 – sure sounds good
to me.
Tomorrow is going to be really fun. I’m going to the
Cultural Village Project to take photos of all the volunteer
workers. They’ve been primed to show up spiffy. We’re going
to make official badges for everybody. They’ll say, "Moshoeshoe
I Cultural Village Volunteer". We’re hoping they will be
worn as a badge of honor.
With love from the currently quite chilly heart of Africa,
Peggi
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Smart Happenings |
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March 15th - 2007 Top 10 Michigan Business Women Awards 13th
Annual Awards Luncheon

Please join the NAWBO Greater Detroit Chapter in honoring
women who are making a difference at the 13th Annual Top 10
Michigan Business Women Awards Luncheon.
Stop by the Smart Women's
Coaching booth to say hello and a have a chance to win a
complimentary coaching session.
For more information or to participate, click here!
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Want to Increase Your Sales While Doubling Your Time Off?

If you are self employed as a consultant, coach, or
professional, please join
Master Business Coach, Travis Greenlee for his Live Expert
Webinar Metoring Session on March 14th 2007. I
worked with Travis personally most of 2006 and took this
program myself. Travis works around 60 hours a month and
earns close to $300,000 annually by leveraging technology
and the internet.
Click here to sign up for his free webinar this week!
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In Closing... |
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Keep your eyes open for Personal Branding Coach, Jill
Jordan's new mini course in April!
Seven Secrets for
Getting Noticed in Life and Business
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